Thursday, November 12th, 2015 / ChrisandChelsea
I came home from work one day to this scene: Chris dozing off while watching a baby show on YouTube with Lily. I feel this photo accurately sums up parenthood during these first months.
Happy baby ready for dinner.
Lily gets the biggest kick out of splashing the raindrops around on our car windows.
We did something dumb. Lily’s baby book has a space for hand and footprints. They don’t do them in the hospital as newborns here so you have to do them on your own and of course by the time we actually remembered to buy an ink pad she was 7 months old already. We thought, “better late than never!” and gave it a shot. Bad idea. Squirmy baby + black ink = a baby book with huge smears on the pages that vaguely resemble hand prints and a baby, daddy and mommy that are covered with ink stains. This picture doesn’t do the damage justice.
Lily loves strumming the guitar and ukulele and I love to think we are bonding over our music time together :)
Happy and cheerful after her nap. (For those of you who have asked, the pajama thing she’s wearing is a Zippadeezip
. This girl was addicted to her swaddle until she was over 6 months so we got her a Zippadeezip to try to help her transition out of it. It thankfully worked and her swaddle is long gone now, but she still loves the Zippadeezip and mommy and daddy love their sleep so it has stuck around.)
Chomping on zucchini.
As soon as she hit 6 months old Lily started going through a MAJOR mommy phase. Nobody was allowed to hold her or give her attention except for mommy. While it was cute at first, 2 months later a continuously fussy baby who won’t give her poor mom a break starts to wear you down. It made work at the bakery really difficult. She suddenly decided she didn’t want to nap at work unless I was holding and rocking her the entire time and when she was awake she refused to be put down or held by anyone else. If I did manage to get her to play on her own, as soon as she thought I MIGHT walk around a corner, even if it was only for 10 seconds, a meltdown would ensue. The photo above is the result of Chris getting her out of her carseat and walking 30 seconds to our front door. Poor guy has felt like chopped liver. Everyone keeps saying, “Oh this is such a fun age!” but I can’t say I agree with them. We’re ready for this stage to be over…
But luckily she still has her fun/adorable moments here and there! :)
Tuesday, November 10th, 2015 / ChrisandChelsea
WE FINALLY SAW THE NORTHERN LIGHTS!
A few weeks ago there was a large solar flare which caused enough magnetic activity for the aurora to be seen in Stavanger. This has happened many times since we moved here, but for various reasons we always seem to miss it. To get the perfect combination of a powerful magnetic storm with a cloudless night, without a full moon, when we were actually available to leave the house and stay up all hours of the night was starting to seem like an impossible feat. We thought this storm was going to be another missed opportunity because we can’t exactly leave the house in the wee hours of the morning to go aurora hunting when we have a little one fast asleep. Normally there is too much light pollution to see it from our neighborhood and we’d need to head for a much darker location, which just isn’t feasible these days.
Around 1am that night though (please don’t ask why we were still up. “Sleep when the baby sleeps” doesn’t always work out. We make poor decisions, ok?) Facebook lit up with pictures and reports of aurora sightings all over the place. I was freaking out a little bit because a friend of ours posted a great photo of the lights from the beach just south of us so Chris suggested he stay with Lily so I could go see them. I grabbed the camera and tripod and jumped in the car feeling horribly guilty and second guessing my choice to go because I REALLY wanted to experience our first aurora sighting as a couple, but I also REALLY wanted to see them and who knows when we would have been able to leave together in the middle of the night now that kids are in the picture.
I got in the car and backed out of the driveway. As I was pulling out, I saw something weird in the sky through the windshield. It took half a second, but then I realized what it was and SLAMMED on the brakes and leapt out of the car, dashing back into the house shout-whispering (because, you know, baby), “Chris! Chris! Chris! Get your shoes on and come outside NOW!”
It must have been a powerful magnetic storm because we could see the aurora clearly right out in front of our house even with the neighborhood streetlights! It was ridiculously cool! Granted, it wasn’t the crazy bright aurora that you see in photos and videos from much farther north, but it was clearly visible and at times we could even see it dancing! From what we’ve read you don’t get much better than that this far south in view of city lights!
You can even spot the big dipper!
We watched it for a good hour and Chris, being the pro photographer he is, captured these photos with a 2 minute exposure. They will forever be some of my most treasured pictures of the two of us. I’m beyond thrilled that we got to experience it together after all!
Sunday, November 08th, 2015 / ChrisandChelsea
Before I had a baby of my own, I thought photos of babies with food stuck all over themselves were gross. But like soooo many other things, once it’s your own:
baby + spaghetti = adorable and hilarious
She wasn’t dextrous enough to keep most of the noodles in her mouth long enough to gum them to death, but she managed to lick the tomato sauce off and sure seemed to enjoy it!
Friday, November 06th, 2015 / ChrisandChelsea
Oh sleep. Why are you so precious and yet so elusive these days? I knew sleep was a major topic in the world of babies, but I had no idea HOW completely and utterly devastating it is (both physically and emotionally) when you can’t figure it out. We’ve spent the last 6 months trying to figure out how to get Lily on a good sleep schedule. We’ve made enormous strides in nighttime sleep but naps are still all over the map and lately she’s been in a wake-up-at-the-unholy-crack-of-dawn phase.
In order to encourage a long first nap we’ve been going on a lot of morning walks. Whether it is successful on any given day is hit or miss, but the late summer/early autumn weather has been lovely and I’ve really enjoyed bundling Lily up in her wrap and exploring our neighborhood with her.
We finally found a walking path from our house to a beach!
Lily is fascinated by sheep. Well…any animal really, but sheep are in good supply around these parts. A little while ago a bird migration flew through the area and she couldn’t stop staring wide-eyed as the big black cloud of birds undulated in and out of the fields chirping loud enough to wake the dead.